A Secret

You should seek and create happiness within you and not depend for it from external circumstances or people. As for love, it is something to be experienced in giving and not in receiving.

Taken from The Spider’s Web, vol. 3, p. 8 -Rev. Chariji
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Teen Thoughts 101: Stress

Teen Thoughts 101: Stress

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Source: http://www.highlandhosp.com/2014/02/10-quick-strategies-for-soothing-stress/

Everyone has stress. Your dog, your neighbour, your parents. The list goes on and on. You want to know why some people seem like they don’t have any stress at all? The answer is because they know how to handle their stress.

There are many MANY ways of handling your stress. It…

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香港教育方向跳「Cha Cha」 by IChan

香港教育方向跳「Cha Cha」 by IChan

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手繪:IChan

香港的教育制度經常轉變,令家長氹氹轉很頭暈。最近教育局更落實,將己刪除多年的文言文考試部分重新立入考試範圍,藉以提升中文水平。

現時學習的中文都未能掌握得好,有關部門應該要加深了解原因並解決問題。如今還要加添額外更高層次的文言文,學生究竟是否消化得來呢?

未站穩去跑,已跌跌踫踫,弄得焦頭爛額,如今要推行文言文教育無疑是百上加斤,有如學生步伐未穩更要負重擔,試問後果?

請不要為改革而改革,為報告而做報告。

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談「性格不能改」by Asperger代言人

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鵝是率直的人,與人混熟後,習慣坦白地說話。鵝記得小時候長輩話做人要誠實,但經驗告訴鵝「說實話,易闖禍」,多次禍從口出之後,鵝明白說話包裝的重要性。

包裝要配合表情,說話要圓滑樣子要誠懇,但過分包裝會變成「擦鞋」。鵝感到困難,寧願少發聲,但過分沉默,又讓人覺得傲慢。

亞氏保加的朋友,你們喜歡怎樣地說話呢?我最喜歡說「不包裝」的話。

談「性格不能改」

Blog原文:http://hk.lifestyle.yahoo.com/blogs/masterlung/玄學家龍師傅–如何後天改變桃花運勢-233021080.html
圖片來源:http://mr6.cc/?p=1715

by Asperger/亞氏保加/亞斯伯格代言人

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亞氏保加症易令人誤會 by Asperger代言人

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亞氏保加症易令人誤會

引用:『 精神科專科醫生丁錫全表示,該症患者普遍有社交障礙,「佢哋鍾意用自己嘅方式生活,唔合群。」他們亦不理解社會常規,例如會在上課途中舉手提問與課堂無關的問題。「同埋佢哋好多都鍾意着白襪仔,因為性格執着,細個讀書時着開,就唔會再改!」』
新聞來源:http://the-sun.on.cc/cnt/news/20131217/00410_031.html

鵝的確因為細個讀書時着開白襪,就唔再改。又因為出生時係黑色頭髮,所以唔會染。

by Asperger/亞氏保加/亞斯伯格代言人

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解讀亞斯伯格 (1)—『雷霆丈夫』? 作者李賀若瑩

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是真人真事嗎?

話說有個在妻子眼中經常「咆哮」的丈夫,家人與他相處時究竟有何經歷?

據其太太的描述,驟聽之下一般人會想像到她的丈夫是一個很難相處的大男人。例如教子女時,妻子感到丈夫事事作對不懂如何配合,嚴寛尺度混亂令孩子無所適從,更遑論教仔準則一致化!

妻子就是怕她的丈夫隨時大聲責難,很多時候都弄不清言談間有那語句觸動了丈夫。總之,他活像個「計時炸彈」隨時大發雷霆,討論時只有他一言堂,好像 新聞報導員,只由他單向地講,有時他越講越激烈,彷彿把妻子當作敵方,勢要用銳利詞鋒把敵方「殺個片格不留」。孩子們幼年時,見父親不時「暴跳如雷」,甚 至有時直呼媽媽名字活像「討債尋仇」,孩子們不時嚇得半死。不過,他們見到父親「暴跳如雷」時一副「義正詞嚴,據理力爭」的模樣,有時也看不透誰是誰非。…

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I Can Hear You Cry: Major Decisions & Turning Points

I Can Hear You Cry: Major Decisions & Turning Points

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My friend, I know it’s painful. We are borne with brokenness. It is never the end.

Major decisions in life including starting a new job/relationship and divorce, can be turning point of life. Instead of taking these decisions as solution, the key to fullness of life depends on self questioning what destiny you…

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